LUCY CAVENDISH: Commitment-phobes, liars, spongers - I've dated them all. Now, at the age of 60, here's EVERYTHING I have learned about men. This is what women of all ages need to know ○

By 54, I was divorced. And, as I turn 60 later this year, it occurs to me how wildly differently I feel about love now. These last ten years have taught me some very hard lessons.