At 49, and in a sexless marriage, I thought my libido was stone-dead. Then one day, post-divorce, THIS encounter woke it with a vengeance. Ladies, here's why it's time to be less 'British in the bedroom'... ○

I am in a hotel room close to Liverpool Street station. It's a smart-ish business place and it's the middle of the day. I am fully clothed but am also about to have sex. Strictly on my terms.